In today’s fast-paced world, parents often find themselves caught up in the busyness of life, leaving less time to focus on family unity and their children’s spiritual growth. But what if there were a simple way to bring your family closer, strengthen relationships, and grow together in faith?
Whether you’re new to the idea or looking for a fresh start, creating a family devotion time can transform your home into a place of deeper connection with God and one another. Curious about how to get started? Discover the simple steps to begin a meaningful family devotion right in your home!
How To Do Family Devotion?
A Step-by-Step Guide
Many parents find the Christian parenting journey challenging. Trying to be a role model while deepening our own relationship with God can be difficult. But one of the ways to do so is spend time with God together as a family.
Doing devotion together will enable parents and children to have intentional conversations about God and His Word. Faith is built through these interactions and parents can better understand their children’s spiritual condition and well-being.
Here are some guidelines to help you start your family devotion:
Every family is different and what works for one family may not work for another. Here’s a suggested structure for facilitating family devotion. Do adapt according to your family dynamics and needs:
- Begin the time with prayer (see samples here)
- Sing a few praise songs
- Read the chosen Scripture passage
- Read the devotion aloud
- Reflection as a family:
- Share how the Scripture reading or devotional speaks to you, and how you’d apply it to your life.
- Ask every family member open-ended questions. Get their views on the Bible verse or article so that you can better understand them, and have conversations about their spiritual, emotional and intellectual convictions.
- Invite family members to share their questions on biblical truths. Use the opportunity to find out what they want to know more about and learn together as a family.
- Ask for prayer requests and pray for each other.
- Close the time with prayer (see samples here)
As a start, we would suggest once a week. As you go along, gradually increase the frequency to a rhythm that is comfortable for the family.
It is good to set a fixed time and day of the week so that parents and children can set the time, establish a routine, and look forward to it. However, there is no hard and fast rule about adjustments, especially during festivities, school holidays and vacations.
The recommendation is to start with 20-30 minutes per session, and allow the conversations to carry on until it ends naturally. Typically, the family devotion time would take under an hour.
Take one step at a time. Spending time in personal devotion will help you extend it to your family. Preparation ahead of time will increase your familiarity with the context, bible passages and questions.
Most importantly, remember to see this as an opportunity to learn more about God together with your children, rather than a bible study session to teach your children. Exploring difficult topics together will strengthen your relationship with each other and with God.
Furthermore, do ask questions and get support from other parents by joining our Facebook group, “Our Daily Bread Ministries Malaysia for Families” which we set up specially to build a learning, growing and supportive community.
Ideally, the time together during family devotion would start with singing hymns or praise songs as this will help everyone focus their hearts and minds on God. If the family is musically-inclined, accompaniment of guitar or piano is good. You can also prepare YouTube videos, hymnals or song sheets.
Prayer is an essential part of family devotion. Starting with prayer sets the devotion time apart and goes beyond bonding time as we invite God into our families. When we end our family devotion with a prayer, we are also asking for God’s will to be done in our lives as we seek Him as a family. We have prepared some prayer resources for you. As you grow deeper in your walk with God, you will find it easier to talk to Him personally, and to lead others in prayer.
We suggest that parents lead the time so that children can be guided as they observe and participate. This could be the father or the mother, or jointly, depending on who is more comfortable doing it. As the children get older and more mature, they may be encouraged to lead some sections.
It is highly encouraged to gather the children together regardless of age and gender. While on some days, parents may want to spend special time with each child for prayer and Bible reading, the family devotion is meant for each child to learn from each other and their parents. Parents may need to paraphrase or explain certain context, Bible passages or questions to make it understandable for younger children, but let us not underestimate their abilities to comprehend.
About the Our Daily Bread Ministries
In 1938, the ministry started with a radio program called Detroit Bible Class. Since then, our audience has grown from a small group of dedicated radio listeners to millions of people around the world who use our Bible-based resources.
Over the years our name has changed to better reflect the variety of resources we offer. Today, we realize that most people recognize who we are by the well-loved devotional Our Daily Bread. So we changed our name to Our Daily Bread Ministries to more clearly communicate who we are. Although our name has changed, our focus remains the same: reaching out to people all around the world with the message of God’s love.
We’re a non-denominational, non-profit organization with staff and volunteers in over 37 offices working together to distribute more than 60 million resources in 150 countries. Regardless of whether it’s a radio or television broadcast, DVD, podcast, book, mobile app, or website, we provide materials to help people grow in their relationship with God.
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