{"id":33472,"date":"2014-06-10T10:09:01","date_gmt":"2014-06-10T02:09:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christianitymalaysia.com\/wp\/?p=33472"},"modified":"2022-02-18T15:54:28","modified_gmt":"2022-02-18T07:54:28","slug":"guys-guide-romance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianitymalaysia.com\/wp\/guys-guide-romance\/","title":{"rendered":"A Guy&#8217;s Guide to Romance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">10 June 2014 by Bill Farrel &#8211;<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><em>\u201cI wish you were more romantic!\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Ever heard those words? If you\u2019re like most husbands, I\u2019ll bet you have. Probably more than once. Those worlds are about as pleasant as \u201cYou need to take a shower!\u201d<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Let\u2019s face it. Most of us have only a vague idea of what romance is really about\u2014and what it means to our wives. Besides, who has time to be Romeo when the kids have tuition classes and the demands from the office never let up?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/christianitymalaysia.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/iambiance1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-33476\" src=\"http:\/\/christianitymalaysia.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/iambiance1-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Romance\" width=\"569\" height=\"314\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Fortunately, romancing your wife isn\u2019t as complicated\u2014or as time consuming\u2014as we make it out to be. In fact, I\u2019ve stumbled across something that eliminates the guesswork and stress: Romantic Rituals.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">What is a romantic ritual? It is a simple act you do on a regular basis to let your wife know how much she matters to you. Creating a romantic ritual is one of the best ways to touch your wife\u2019s heart while you work a job and raise a family!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">My wife Sarah and I have done one such ritual since the early days of our relationship. At a meal, we give thanks and pray before eating, and right after that, we kiss. It doesn\u2019t take much effort but it conveys to Sarah that she is special to me.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/christianitymalaysia.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/breakfast-in-bed.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-33478\" src=\"http:\/\/christianitymalaysia.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/breakfast-in-bed-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"breakfast-in-bed\" width=\"559\" height=\"294\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">The simple act has an even bigger impact when I do it in public. She gets the message that I delight in her and want others to know it.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Other examples of romantic rituals I have been told are:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">We say \u201cI love you\u201d every time we hand car keys to each other<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">We kiss anytime we hear a car honking<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">I bring my wife coffee in bed every morning with a post it note that says \u201cI love you\u201d.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Of course, these rituals do not replace you taking your wife out on a date or surprising her with her favourite flowers, but they create the type of environment that regularly affirms your love for one another!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/christianitymalaysia.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/young-happy-man-helping-smiling-wife-clean-kitchen.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-33480\" src=\"http:\/\/christianitymalaysia.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/young-happy-man-helping-smiling-wife-clean-kitchen-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"young-happy-man-helping-smiling-wife-clean-kitchen\" width=\"548\" height=\"302\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">How do you find a ritual that will work?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Step 1: Choose an activity that you do often, such as getting the mail from the letterbox, walking through the front door, or placing dishes in the sink.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Step 2: Add a romantic element, such as a kiss, a note or a statement of affection.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Step 3: Commit to doing it no matter how you feel or how your day is going. The power is in its consistency<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">If you happen to get a great idea for an over-the-top romantic surprise, take advantage of it. But while you are waiting for that inspiration to hit, build a ritual that gives your wife the romance she craves!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/christianitymalaysia.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/flowers_1342484c.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-33482\" src=\"http:\/\/christianitymalaysia.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/flowers_1342484c-300x187.jpg\" alt=\"flowers_1342484c\" width=\"546\" height=\"290\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">This article was published with permission from Focus on the Family Malaysia. 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Visit us at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.marriedforloveforlife.my\">www.marriedforloveforlife.my<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">Focus on the Family 90-second audio program is aired over TRAXX FM at 8.15 a.m. and 6.45pm every Monday to Friday.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-family: trebuchet ms,helvetica,sans-serif;\"><strong><em><span style=\"font-size: 28px;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">|Share The Good News|<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\">References for pictures<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/cdnimg.visualizeus.com\/thumbs\/1a\/4d\/couple,love,night,photography,picture,mine-1a4d2de8e53053f2595fae09b5ab3ee1_h.jpg\">http:\/\/cdnimg.visualizeus.com\/thumbs\/1a\/4d\/couple,love,night,photography,picture,mine-1a4d2de8e53053f2595fae09b5ab3ee1_h.jpg<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.iambiance.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/iambiance1.jpg\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">http:\/\/www.iambiance.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/iambiance1.jpg<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/glitterinc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/breakfast-in-bed.jpg\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">http:\/\/glitterinc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/breakfast-in-bed.jpg<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/cdn.sheknows.com\/articles\/2012\/12\/RebekahN\/young-happy-man-helping-smiling-wife-clean-kitchen.jpg\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">http:\/\/cdn.sheknows.com\/articles\/2012\/12\/RebekahN\/young-happy-man-helping-smiling-wife-clean-kitchen.jpg<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/i.telegraph.co.uk\/multimedia\/archive\/01342\/flowers_1342484c.jpg\"><span style=\"font-size: 14px;\"><span style=\"font-family: verdana,geneva,sans-serif;\">http:\/\/i.telegraph.co.uk\/multimedia\/archive\/01342\/flowers_1342484c.jpg<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>10 June 2014 by Bill Farrel &#8211; &nbsp; \u201cI wish you were more romantic!\u201d Ever heard those words? 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